Pastor Mildred Okonkwo who is married to lead pastor of David Christian Centre, Kingsley Okonkwo, has responded to questions about couples in a distant marriage and if it’s OK for them to engage in masturbation and phone s3x while they are living apart.
The clergy who was asked if it’s OK for them to engage in masturbation and phone s3x while both couples are are living miles apart said that; “It’s a distant marriage and your sexual needs have to be met.”
She added: “The Bible tells us that there’s no… God doesn’t really give us clear instructions on what to do inside your marriage.
“When you’re married, he kind of leaves you guys to know how to explore. So, there’s no rule that says, oh, don’t kiss on the forehead, kiss in the ear. It doesn’t break it down.
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“So, when it comes to that kind of thing, God is trusting both of you to make the decision on what really works.”
She continued: ” And if there’s no other way for their sexual needs to be met, what should they do? They should burn? They are married so it is their decision.”
She said phone sex between a married couple living apart only becomes a problem when the couple can’t complete the phone sex due to whatever issues such as poor network and one partner then goes off, looking for someone else to finish off with.
